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Received today — 29 April 2026 The Independent Singapore News
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  • Residents raise concerns as 146 rats cleared from Tampines estates Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: A rat infestation in parts of Tampines has raised concern among residents, with the town council removing 146 rats from Sections 7 and 8 in Tampines East as of April 23. On Facebook, the Tampines Town Council shared updates about their control measures, and assured that they have heard the complaints of people and are taking the appropriate actions to take care of the problem.  Tampines Town Council Facebook Page Part of the process is the Town Council’s mitigating measures, whic
     

Residents raise concerns as 146 rats cleared from Tampines estates

29 April 2026 at 18:04

SINGAPORE: A rat infestation in parts of Tampines has raised concern among residents, with the town council removing 146 rats from Sections 7 and 8 in Tampines East as of April 23.

On Facebook, the Tampines Town Council shared updates about their control measures, and assured that they have heard the complaints of people and are taking the appropriate actions to take care of the problem. 

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Tampines Town Council Facebook Page

Part of the process is the Town Council’s mitigating measures, which involve inspection to detect early signs of infestation, burrow treatment with rodenticide, culling near bins, and deployment of rodent traps. 

The town council is also working on improving housekeeping. Measures include washing bins to remove food waste, ensuring bin lids are properly closed, and offering free bulky item removal to reduce clutter that could attract pests.

An upcoming food waste digester in N2 is also expected to help by reducing food odours and limiting accessible food sources for rodents.

Residents are being encouraged to do their part by disposing of waste properly and keeping bins clean and closed.

“Keeping rodents at bay requires everyone’s effort, and residents play an important role, too…Please dispose of waste properly and recycle food waste where possible. Every small action makes a difference in keeping our estate clean and liveable,” the Town Council declared in their post.

Aside from rats, birds are also causing stress to some local residents. In a recent report, crows nesting near Chinatown Complex have been attacking passersby, with more than 10 people affected in the past week.

Read more about the news story here.

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  • Husband demands refund on deceased wife’s hair salon package Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: A widowed husband has been trying to get a refund for his deceased wife’s haircut package, but luck was not on his side after nearly six months. A spokesperson from the hair salon admitted that the package had expired, and out of goodwill, had agreed to transfer 50% of the payment, but the husband refused.  According to Shin Min Daily News, the 50-year-old husband shared that his wife passed away from lung cancer last September, and he contacted beauty, hair salons, and gyms in Singap
     

Husband demands refund on deceased wife’s hair salon package

29 April 2026 at 12:03

SINGAPORE: A widowed husband has been trying to get a refund for his deceased wife’s haircut package, but luck was not on his side after nearly six months. A spokesperson from the hair salon admitted that the package had expired, and out of goodwill, had agreed to transfer 50% of the payment, but the husband refused. 

According to Shin Min Daily News, the 50-year-old husband shared that his wife passed away from lung cancer last September, and he contacted beauty, hair salons, and gyms in Singapore and Malaysia to get a refund for his wife’s packages before her death. 

Case details 

Last October, the husband inquired about the details of the package his wife signed up for, pretending that he was her. As per the salon’s reply, his wife purchased a package, which included five colouring sessions and five hair treatments. 

According to the package information, my wife signed the contract in August 2023, and she started cancer treatment in September. The doctor also instructed her not to apply any irritating products, so I believe she never used the package at all,” the husband admitted, who then revealed himself to the salon in November and learned that the package cost $990. 

The husband then contacted the salon to inquire about the arrangements needed because his wife had passed away. The salon initially said that they needed to pass the message to the management. When the husband tried to follow up several times, the salon claimed that they were busy. 

“I feel that if they really wanted to handle it, they wouldn’t have dragged it out for so long; it’s a bit irresponsible,” he said.

When the reporters contacted the salon, the person in charge admitted that they had contacted the husband and agreed to transfer a 50% refund, but the husband was unwilling to accept the offer. 

Furthermore, the salon pointed out that the package had already expired and that there were clear terms and conditions in the contract stating that a refund would not be possible.  

In response to this, the husband felt the hair salon had delayed the situation for quite some time now; that’s why he was unwilling to accept the refund and wanted the salon to apologise. 

Other related news 

In other related news about Singapore complaints, there was a report where a restaurant along Geylang Road charged a child with S$2 for drinking his own water, reportedly due to a no outside food and drinks policy.

Even though it was understood that the restaurant stated that customers are not allowed to bring their own food and drinks, the members of the public expressed their thoughts and opinions about this matter. 

Read more about the news story here.

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‘It is important to take responsibility and apologize’: Customer disappointed as beautician cuts a her face

29 April 2026 at 10:30

SINGAPORE: A supposed pamper day turned into a nightmare when a customer who visited J.C. Skin at Khatib claimed that a beautician scratched her face with a blade while doing an eyebrow touch-up and failed to apologise. 

In a Facebook post, the customer shared that the incident occurred during the procedure when the blade came too close to her face. However, instead of owning up to the mistake, the beautician blamed the client, stating that it happened because she made ‘a big movement’. The customer admitted that she was lying on the bed throughout the procedure and did not do so. 

“I felt very disappointed with the attitude shown. Accidents can happen, but it is important to take responsibility and apologise to the customer,” the customer declared in the post. 

Netizens also shared their thoughts and opinions in the comments section of the post. One claimed that it was not an accident, and it was intentional because it is impossible to scratch a person’s cut in the mouth area. Others say that she was bullied. 

“Claim for compensation and engage legal assistance if required. Businesses need to have insurance to cover accidents,” a netizen suggested. 

Another netizen claimed: “Even if you move, she also can’t use this as an excuse. She was using a blade, and she had to be careful and responsible for the safety of the customer.” 

Other related news 

In other related news regarding customer complaints, there was a report where a woman was nearly burned when a fire broke out at their table at a Korean hot pot restaurant. 

When I bent down to look, I found thick smoke and flames coming out of the hole under the dining table, which scared me so much that I ran away quickly,” the diner declared.

Read more about the news story here

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  • Residents, businesses in Bishan stressed as birds target leftovers and more Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: Birds have once again become a problem in residential areas, this time in Bishan, where residents and businesses say the situation is getting harder to manage. Different types of birds have been spotted targeting food across the area. Mynas have been pecking at fruits, while pigeons go after leftovers, creating ongoing frustration for both stallholders and customers. According to Shin Min Daily News, the issue has persisted for years at Bishan North Shopping Centre, with little improv
     

Residents, businesses in Bishan stressed as birds target leftovers and more

29 April 2026 at 07:32

SINGAPORE: Birds have once again become a problem in residential areas, this time in Bishan, where residents and businesses say the situation is getting harder to manage.

Different types of birds have been spotted targeting food across the area. Mynas have been pecking at fruits, while pigeons go after leftovers, creating ongoing frustration for both stallholders and customers.

According to Shin Min Daily News, the issue has persisted for years at Bishan North Shopping Centre, with little improvement. When reporters visited the area, pigeons, crows, and mynas were seen roaming freely, especially near fruit stalls and coffee shops.

The birds appear unfazed by human presence, often lingering near diners and scavenging around bins for food. Some have even been seen pecking at food offerings meant for worship.

A 47-year-old fruit stall worker said the problem has been ongoing for about a decade, with daily losses of $10 to $20 due to damaged produce.

“Once the fruit has been pecked at, it can no longer be sold, which is very frustrating… I cover up whatever isn’t on display to prevent further damage,” the worker said.

A 43-year-old coffee shop employee shared similar concerns, particularly around hygiene.

“We chase them away whenever we see them. They’re quite clever—they don’t go onto tables but stay on the ground looking for scraps. Even in small numbers, they’re still a nuisance,” the worker said.

Some businesses have taken matters into their own hands. One coffee shop has installed large nets to deter birds, but workers say the problem is returning.

“The number of birds is gradually increasing again. We hope authorities can step in and improve the situation,” said a 65-year-old employee.

Related

In a separate incident, crows near Chinatown Complex were reported to have attacked more than 10 people in a week, allegedly targeting individuals with bald or thinning hair.

Read more about the news story here

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Received yesterday — 28 April 2026 The Independent Singapore News

‘I could have been burned’—Diner complained as hot pot table suddenly burst into flames

28 April 2026 at 18:03

SINGAPORE: What was supposed to be a fun and enjoyable dining out experience turned out to be a traumatic experience when a woman was nearly burned when a fire broke out at their table at a Korean hot pot restaurant. 

A 23-year-old woman reported to Shin Min Daily News that she and her friends decided to dine out at a Korean hot pot restaurant located in Orchard Road last April 23, but the accident allegedly happened shortly after they sat down to eat.

The diner shared that at first, they thought it was parchment paper that was causing the burning smell. However, they were wrong. 

When I bent down to look, I found thick smoke and flames coming out of the hole under the dining table, which scared me so much that I ran away quickly,” the diner declared. She then felt a warm feeling coming from her thigh, which alerted her even more. 

As seen in the photos provided by the diner, the holes, plugs, and outer walls of the electrical outlets under the dining table were blackened, and the electrical wires were loose. Due to this, they complained to the store afterwards, but the staff only helped them change the table and did not apologise or offer any compensation afterwards. 

“This could have been a big or small matter. If I hadn’t noticed it in time, I could have been burned. I also heard several sounds that sounded like wires breaking, which were all potential safety hazards,” the diner declared, and expected that the restaurant would take full responsibility for what happened. The diner stated that the staff did not apologise at all, and requested for a refund. 

Restaurant claimed that there was no fire

In an interview, the manager of the hot pot restaurant admitted that the diner had been eating in the restaurant for nearly an hour when the induction cooker inside the table malfunctioned, but it did not catch fire. 

“If there had been a fire, the store would have lost power, but that didn’t happen. They were able to continue eating for another half hour, and then they came to ask us for a refund,” the restaurant said. 

The restaurant added: “The customers were not injured, and the food supply was not affected. Business is already difficult, and we have apologised many times, but they seem to want more.” 

Moreover, the staff pointed out that they had apologised multiple times but believed that the refund request was slightly inappropriate. 

Other related news 

In similar news related to fire in Singapore, a 40-year-old man has been arrested for his suspected involvement in three arson cases, with police making the arrest within two hours of receiving a report.

Read more about the news story here

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  • Good news! 27 HDB estates are being renovated, lifting 30,000 households islandwide Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: The Housing and Development Board HDB) is now launching a new round of renovations across 27 estates islandwide—a significant upgrade for HDB residents. The projects are backed by government funding of more than S$130 million and will benefit more than 30,000 households.  As reported by Yan.sg, the project is divided into two major programs, namely the Neighbourhood Renewal Programme (NRP) and the Silver Upgrading Programme (SUP). The Neighbourhood Renewal Scheme has selected 246 reno
     

Good news! 27 HDB estates are being renovated, lifting 30,000 households islandwide

28 April 2026 at 01:30

SINGAPORE: The Housing and Development Board HDB) is now launching a new round of renovations across 27 estates islandwide—a significant upgrade for HDB residents. The projects are backed by government funding of more than S$130 million and will benefit more than 30,000 households. 

As reported by Yan.sg, the project is divided into two major programs, namely the Neighbourhood Renewal Programme (NRP) and the Silver Upgrading Programme (SUP). The Neighbourhood Renewal Scheme has selected 246 renovation projects across 16 batches nationwide since its launch in 2007, and the government has invested over S$1.6 billion in this program, benefitting an estimated number of 315,500 households. As of March this year, a total of 141 projects were completed, and the remaining 105 are under construction. 

More so, the Silver Upgrading Programme will have 10 new HDB estates, including Ang Mo Kio, Bukit Merah, and Queenstown, for its next batch. This project, set to begin in the second half of the year and be done by the second half of 2028, is expected to benefit more than 9,000 households. Launched in 2024, this program focuses on older HDB estates with a large population of elderly residents, adding senior-friendly facilities to support the people in their later years. There is an approximate number of 14,400 households that have benefited from this program to date. 

According to feedback, common renovation issues from residents include constructing fitness trails connecting facilities for seniors, adding clearer directional signs, especially to facilitate travel for the elderly, and installing yellow warning lines along the ground boundaries to prevent tripping. Furthermore, residents want more sheltered rest areas to chat and rest after exercising, and have wheelchair-friendly community gardens and sheltered fitness areas. 

Indeed, HDB is committed to making homes and communities warmer and more welcoming for residents of all ages, empowering each and everyone to have a place they can truly call home. 

Read more about HDB’s renovation plan here

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Received — 27 April 2026 The Independent Singapore News
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  • Angry beautician reports flowerpot turning to trash cans to the police Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: Garbage is supposed to be thrown in the right bin, but in the case of a beautician homeowner, her flowerpot became the garbage bin instead.  A 46-year-old beautician living in Yishun Street reported to Shin Min Daily News that people have been leaving garbage in the flowerpot outside her home, and some people even poured an entire bag of brown sugar in it. The homeowner admitted that when she first moved in about six months ago, there was no issue until February of this year, when gar
     

Angry beautician reports flowerpot turning to trash cans to the police

27 April 2026 at 12:00

SINGAPORE: Garbage is supposed to be thrown in the right bin, but in the case of a beautician homeowner, her flowerpot became the garbage bin instead. 

A 46-year-old beautician living in Yishun Street reported to Shin Min Daily News that people have been leaving garbage in the flowerpot outside her home, and some people even poured an entire bag of brown sugar in it. The homeowner admitted that when she first moved in about six months ago, there was no issue until February of this year, when garbage started appearing. 

She shared that the flowerpot contained a money tree, which was not blocking other people’s way, and she had kept it tidy. She revealed that the first trash that she had found in the pot was a tissue paper, followed by torn advertising flyers. 

Someone dumped a bag of finely chopped flyers into the flowerpot, which I couldn’t clean up,” the homeowner declared. 

When she checked her surveillance camera, she found that it was done by an older woman, wearing shorts and a sleeveless top, carrying a plastic bag containing shards. She then scattered the shards into a flowerpot and left. 

In order to prevent such things from happening again, the homeowner printed out the CCTV footage and left a notice with a note stating that there is a camera and that littering should not be done. However, despite the notice, the incident happened once more. 

The homeowner remarked, “It only stopped for a few days. Yesterday, I found that someone had poured a whole bag of brown sugar into the flowerpot again, attracting a large number of ants. I suspect it was the same person who did it.”  The money tree, which cost the homeowner more than $100, was now an anthill, and she needed to replant it. 

With this, she immediately reported the incident to the police. Police confirmed that they had received a report and that the case is under investigation.

Other related news 

In other news related to Singapore complaints, a resident of a Yishun HDB flat recently raised safety concerns after concrete blocks began falling from the ceiling of his unit, causing cracks in parts of the ceiling and walls. 

The building is said to be 42 years old, and many residents, unfortunately, reported similar problems. 

Read more about the story here.

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Received — 26 April 2026 The Independent Singapore News
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  • Man abuses position as director to steal over S$100,000, gets jail term Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: A man holding the power of being a director used it as an opportunity to do something illegal—to steal accommodation, services, and goods amounting to over S$100,000 from the company he once worked for. The 37-year-old suspect now faces 23 charges in court, including deception, fraudulent services, and forgery, and is now sentenced to three and a half years’ imprisonment. The remaining charges will be taken into consideration by the judge during sentencing.  Case details  The suspect
     

Man abuses position as director to steal over S$100,000, gets jail term

26 April 2026 at 09:00

SINGAPORE: A man holding the power of being a director used it as an opportunity to do something illegal—to steal accommodation, services, and goods amounting to over S$100,000 from the company he once worked for. The 37-year-old suspect now faces 23 charges in court, including deception, fraudulent services, and forgery, and is now sentenced to three and a half years’ imprisonment. The remaining charges will be taken into consideration by the judge during sentencing. 

Case details 

The suspect has already been sent to a juvenile detention centre as young as 10 years old for theft, according to Shin Min Daily News. He became a director of a company between November 2022 and May 2023, and during his tenure, he stole from the company and continued to do so even after he left his position. 

Investigations revealed that between June 2024 and May 2025, the suspect stole more than S$100,000, and also attempted to steal others of S$500 in insurance premiums by forging medical bills. His crime fell into three main classifications, namely pretending to buy goods from an online shopping platform, placing huge amounts of orders directly with wholesalers or catering businesses, and using services such as renting cars, renting apartments, or checking into hotels.

How did he commit his crimes?

In order to deceive his victims, he would show screenshots of transfers from his Wise e-wallet to create the illusion of payment, only to cancel the transfers later. When being questioned by victims, he would claim that the transactions needed time to process and then disappear afterwards. 

The police then received 13 reports of similar cases, and the authorities identified the suspect as the mastermind of all fraud cases. 

After his arrest in August 2025, the suspect has been in custody ever since. The authorities later confirmed that after being sent to a juvenile detention centre at the age of 10, and three years later, he was sentenced to another three years in the juvenile detention centre, three years after,  for committing theft and fraud.

In similar news, a man was caught in the act when a neighbour vigilantly filmed his crime and reported it to the homeowner. 

The homeowner knew that a stranger had gone inside their home, thanks to the evidence provided by the neighbour, and immediately reported the crime to the police. 

Read more about the story here.

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Willing to wait rather than settle: Graduates nowadays are quick to turn down job offers if the salary isn’t right

26 April 2026 at 00:00

SINGAPORE: More graduates in Singapore are turning down job offers if the salary does not meet their expectations, reflecting a shift in how young job seekers approach employment.

A recent graduate employment survey conducted by six autonomous universities, including the National University of Singapore and Nanyang Technological University, found that over 30% of graduates rejected job offers due to low pay.

Many graduates are becoming more selective, choosing to wait for better opportunities rather than accept roles that fall short of their expectations.

A survey released by Singapore’s Ministry of Manpower unveiled that salary is the top factor for local university graduates when looking for a job. It is the factor that is mostly considered, even more so than career development and job flexibility. 

Data revealed that approximately 35% of graduates who received job offers chose to decline the offer, with the reasoning that the salary did not meet their expectations. In terms of salaries, the latest graduate employment survey report shows that the median monthly salary for full-time jobs for 2025 public university graduates will still be S$4,500.

Graduates in information technology-related fields will have a median monthly salary of S$5,500, the finance and insurance industry, followed closely with salaries ranging from S$5,500 to S$8,000. Furthermore, engineering graduates earned a median monthly salary of approximately S$4,600, with architecture-related fields having a huge increase, rising by about 4% year-on-year.

More so, NTU’s business and computer engineering double degree graduates are reported to have an average monthly salary of nearly S$7,000, and NUS’s medical and computer science graduates can also get starting salaries of over S$6,000. 

Meanwhile, for graduates majoring in art, design, and media, their full-time employment rate is only 50%, and with a median monthly salary of S$3,840. Many graduates are also pursuing freelance or part-time work. 

Given the standards of the newer generation in terms of job employment, experts are now urging companies to focus on improving their salary rates, career development offerings, and work flexibility to attract more young and fresh talent in their pool. 

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Received — 25 April 2026 The Independent Singapore News
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  • Father forced to sleep outside HDB block for months, son jailed for assault Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: A disturbing case unfolded at an HDB block, where a son refused to let his elderly father into their home, forcing the 74-year-old man to sleep downstairs for months. The 40-year-old son is now facing four charges, including intentional assault and violence. He pleaded guilty to two charges, with the remaining taken into consideration, and was sentenced to 13 weeks’ jail. Case details According to Shin Min Daily News, the HDB flat was owned by the suspect’s parents, but the son would
     

Father forced to sleep outside HDB block for months, son jailed for assault

25 April 2026 at 18:03

SINGAPORE: A disturbing case unfolded at an HDB block, where a son refused to let his elderly father into their home, forcing the 74-year-old man to sleep downstairs for months.

The 40-year-old son is now facing four charges, including intentional assault and violence. He pleaded guilty to two charges, with the remaining taken into consideration, and was sentenced to 13 weeks’ jail.

Case details

According to Shin Min Daily News, the HDB flat was owned by the suspect’s parents, but the son would only allow his father to return home if he followed certain conditions.

At one point, the elderly man was allowed back into the flat only after buying breakfast for his son. Once inside, the son would confiscate his phone, preventing him from contacting anyone.

The mother was also reportedly not allowed to return home and had to stay with their daughter. However, the daughter’s home was too small to accommodate the father.

As a result, the elderly man spent nights sleeping downstairs at the HDB block. Some neighbours, who noticed his situation, gave him money for food.

One 79-year-old resident said he had often seen the man sitting or sleeping downstairs, though many did not know the full details at the time.

On Feb 21, 2026, the father tried once again to return home. However, his son demanded that he buy a testosterone patch first. When the elderly man refused, the two got into an argument.

The son then kicked his father three times. Despite the pain, the elderly man begged for mercy, but the son continued to punch him in the arms.

Two days later, on Feb 23, the son made further demands and even threatened to burn the house. During another confrontation, he punched his father twice in the left eye.

Despite the repeated assaults, the elderly man did not seek medical attention.

Following the incidents, the son was arrested and has since been remanded.

Other related news 

In another story involving elderly residents in HDB estates, a resident shared a video of a group of aunties gathering weekly at the void deck. The women were seen dancing to loud music, drawing attention from neighbours in the otherwise quiet block.

Read more about the story here.

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  • Crows in Chinatown attack over 10 people, targeting bald and thinning-haired men Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: Crows nesting near Chinatown Complex have reportedly been attacking passersby, with more than 10 people affected in the past week. The birds appear to be targeting individuals with bald or thinning hair, according to Shin Min Daily News. A resident said three crows have been seen around a tree near the complex, where they are believed to have built a nest. In one video, an elderly man was walking past when a crow suddenly swooped down and struck his head before he could react. In anot
     

Crows in Chinatown attack over 10 people, targeting bald and thinning-haired men

25 April 2026 at 13:34

SINGAPORE: Crows nesting near Chinatown Complex have reportedly been attacking passersby, with more than 10 people affected in the past week.

The birds appear to be targeting individuals with bald or thinning hair, according to Shin Min Daily News.

A resident said three crows have been seen around a tree near the complex, where they are believed to have built a nest.

In one video, an elderly man was walking past when a crow suddenly swooped down and struck his head before he could react.

In another instance, a crow flew towards a passerby but veered away at the last moment.

Business owners in the area said the attacks have been happening almost daily, typically around 10 a.m. and 5 p.m., with two to three crows circling overhead.

One shop owner said the birds are likely becoming aggressive as they protect their nest and chicks.

He added that while around 10 people have been affected so far, the incidents have not significantly impacted business.

Other related news 

In a similar case, residents at an HDB block have raised concerns over repeated crow attacks along a sixth-floor corridor. Some said it has become difficult to move around safely, with many now wearing hats or carrying umbrellas to avoid being targeted.

Read more about the news story here

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  • ‘Left unread for a month’ — Netizen asks if ghosting is becoming normal Aiah Bathan
    SINGAPORE: Ghosting is often talked about in the context of romantic relationships, but one netizen pointed out that it seems to be happening in friendships too. In a post on Reddit, the user shared that they had invited a friend out for lunch nearly a month ago — but the message is still left unread. This led them to ask whether ghosting has become a common part of today’s culture. The post got people talking and many shared their own thoughts and experiences One commenter said that friendships
     

‘Left unread for a month’ — Netizen asks if ghosting is becoming normal

25 April 2026 at 06:00

SINGAPORE: Ghosting is often talked about in the context of romantic relationships, but one netizen pointed out that it seems to be happening in friendships too.

In a post on Reddit, the user shared that they had invited a friend out for lunch nearly a month ago — but the message is still left unread. This led them to ask whether ghosting has become a common part of today’s culture.

The post got people talking and many shared their own thoughts and experiences

One commenter said that friendships nowadays can feel more transactional, often limited to work or school. While they didn’t agree with it, they noted that some people seem fine keeping things that way.

Others said delayed replies don’t always mean someone is ignoring you. For some, replying can feel like a task, so they leave messages unopened until they’re ready.

“I usually call people instead of making plans on chat — that way they know I really want to follow through,” one shared.

Still, not everyone was convinced. Some felt ghosting simply comes down to avoidance or lack of interest.

“If you are wondering why people ghost, it’s because some people dislike confrontation or just don’t care,” one commenter said.

At the same time, a few urged others not to jump to conclusions, pointing out that people may be dealing with things in their personal lives that others are unaware of.

One netizen, however, took a more direct stance: “If close, at most one day to reply. Else they don’t really care.”

While opinions differed, the discussion reflects how unclear communication has become, where unread messages and delayed replies can easily be interpreted in different ways.

Ghosting, whether in relationships or friendships, can leave people feeling ignored or rejected. For many, it comes down to one thing: clear communication still matters.

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